CURE YOUR DEPRESSION

Overcoming Depression With Stress Management Hypnosis

Raises stirring in a pressure cooker until the panic hits a mental overload condition. The fear, pain, confusion, anxiety, disorientation and bewildered - cast body and mind is in a state of imbalance, a state he lost control. He lost control is a red flag dangerous or frightening consequences, real or imaginary. We are completely vulnerable to panic unless it is under control quickly enough to allow for clear thinking and calm mind to react in the presence of a threat.

How the victims of such overwhelming feelings quickly and reliably retrieve and manage a basic emotional level, a level where the panic is subject adequately for the mind to think clearly enough to again save it in the body really needs need to save from danger? Cause injury to itself, sufficient to cause tissue damage, which was quickly checks out of control. This is the basis of self-mutilation.

In many cases, it is a primitive mechanism to cope with the intention of preventing suicide. How do I know this? Because I was a "cutter" for years. I do not advocate self-harm and encourage others not to do so. I hate pictures freely available on the Internet flattering image of self-harm. Believe me, many of these images here are disgusting. Self-harm is not very glamorous, it's not fun, and it should not be spread on the Internet as the equivalent of the mental illness of a rock star.

Self-harm is very addictive and also very misunderstood. There are instances of people self-harm as a demonstration of self-hate and there are cases of people doing this just to get attention. What I wrote about self-injury is used to save the spirit itself. Used to relieve and rationalization, flick off the suicidal intent long enough to regain the hold and escape.

Anyone who self-injures, and was "outed" as a self-injurer, you say they have heard the following words: - "What a stupid to do," "You" "You're crazy!" re just trying to attract attention, "! etc. ad nauseam. Even some so-called medical professionals have the same mentality of the dark ages. However, you will find that most self-mutilation of their way to cover what they did and tried to explain it. "I broke a glass while doing the dishes," the cat had a fit of rage, "" I stuck my fingers in the car door, "or" we burned his hand on the oven, for example . They cover their wounds with a bandage and a brush changes in investigation curious topic. This behavior proves more or less does not fall into the category of research attention.

So why and how? I speak from personal experience. It works by changing the mood and draw attention to emotional stress by providing physical pain instead. There is a theory releases endorphins, "feel good" hormone, and, as such, may reduce serotonin endorphins, "do not feel too good" hormone. A higher level of depression and anxiety due to serotonin, exactly why antidepressants are serotonin blockers. The mind is a strange and wonderful inventions. He will try to save your body can not in any way, even if the heart is an emotional hurricane. He will return to primitive methods, once fully aware of how quickly you can get results. Self-mutilation is not a sign of madness or psychosis, is generally a clear sign of the victim attempts to find rationality. Self-mutilation when we know exactly what we do and why. We know it will work and we know we will return to this basic level.

Why not just have a good cry out of it your system? Why not have a rant and express their anger over it? If you are angry with someone, tell them! If you are in mourning, let yourself mourn the benefits! Other questions and statements heard by those who have been unmasked.

Again, I speak from personal experience. Not everyone has learned to convey emotions in a constructive manner. Some of us were raised in an environment in which to express our feelings, whether anger, fear, pain, confusion, was decisively discouraged and / or lead to unintended consequences, usually a form of punishment or humiliation. Sometimes this negativity came from parents, sometimes peers, teachers, sometimes, and sometimes these people. Rather than risk punishment or humiliation, learn to bottle our opinions and feelings within ourselves and dared not open the bottle. If parents or other close influences were a bad model in terms of handling stressful situations, how a child can learn the proper way to deal with when they become an adult? You can not speak English if you were only taught Latin. Children are a reflection of their education, a sponge absorbing all the information around them, if this information is good, bad or indifferent. A brother can grow up introverted and prone to develop something like self-harm, while others could get up to defend himself with arrogance, force, violence, or may develop other addictions such as drugs or alcohol . Some personalities reflected in each unique and distinct constructs.

Self-harm is much addictive and is the veil of self-mutilate are more shame. I used to fall into this category of shame. I did not. Angers me when I hear ignorant comments and I have learned over the years the difficulty of this problem is to explain to another. For years, I did not ask for help when I was told by one psychiatrist, "Give me a knife to cut, not working properly, and more." Therefore, it was a long time before I trusted another psychiatrist to give me more understanding and practice of diversion techniques. I used to regularly self-harm, several times a month when I was younger. Now I am able to control urges better than usual and put into practice the techniques of diversion. soothing music works for me very effective.

Once the addict is usually difficult to break one, just like any other addiction. Remember, self-injury changes in brain chemistry as a drug. Endorphins are known as "feel good" hormones for a reason. Mutilate themselves experience an enthusiasm not because of pain in the same way a cigarette does not have much enthusiasm for the smoker. Smokers tend to light up when more simply concerned with the application of relaxation can make a cigarette. What gains the self-injurer is the feeling of control, a lull in the eye of the hurricane, a chance to achieve a feeling of being able to protect us, we thought lucid. our pain or anxiety is not healed, it does not disappear, but we can manage the back ground. We can save it, if only briefly.

The thing people must understand that major self-mutilation is not a failed suicide attempt. It is quite the opposite, in fact, suicide is a distraction success. If you or someone you know, self-harm, then you should seek help for yourself or for them. Learning to express emotions benefits, retraining the brain to speak English, not Latin, requires time, patience and understanding. Overcoming self-harm is a difficult path full of obstacles on the road. It is difficult not to give in to temptation when you know how much relief of unbearable stress.

To survive in the long term, self-injury is not the answer to this question is only a quick fix with no long term benefit. Another thing we know from experience. Sooner or later, we know hits ... we try to regain control of emotions through the power lost to addiction. Of course, it's much easier to hurt us physically to endure for months or years of therapy to discover the cause of our pain and / or stress. It is much easier for a smoker to light up a cigarette to suffer withdrawal. What we are - self-harm in the world - left, unless we get help? We are left scars on the body, just too perfect mirror of our minds scars.

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